Hi, I’m Alexis.

I help couples find clarity, direction + confidence when making big decisions about their relationship.

If you’re struggling with a massive decision about your marriage, you’re in the right place.

When people come to work with me, they are confused and exhausted, desperate for resolution and clarity. I consider it a true privilege to help people transform from uncertain & tired to clear-headed & ready for what’s next.

I merge my experience as a mental health counselor, couples therapist and certified discernment counselor to help people create a more robust conceptualization of their marriage.

I honor the fact that the only people that will ever fully understand a couple’s relationship are the people in it and I have no authority to tell you what to do. Instead, I focus on helping people put the right language around their experience, values and contributions to relationship problems.

My clients describe me as warm and validating while also challenging them to think about all the important parts of the decision-making process, not just the parts that make them feel good.

I bring my genuine self to the counseling space and it’s my top priority to create an environment where you can be your genuine self, too.

Credentials


Licensed Mental Health Counselor


Certified Discernment Counselor


Washington State Counselor Supervisor


My mission is to help people in tough situations move forward in a thoughtful, intentional way.

Core values of my practice

Trauma-Informed

Client-Centered

Curiosity over assumption

Culturally-Sensitive

Research-Based

Empathy over judgement

I’d love to connect with you!